Op-Ed: Culture chameleon: As a Korean American, I often feel pressured to change who I am
![Illustration of a Korean woman in traditional clothing with a red, white and blue hat and a chameleon on her shoulder](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/d3ca4ab/2147483647/strip/true/crop/3150x2100+0+0/resize/1200x800!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fd1%2Fa7%2Fa7c465704447b28a25c896410075%2Foe-ha-culture-chameleon-header.jpg)
(Robin Ha)
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Robin Ha is a Korean American cartoonist based in Washington, D.C. She is the author of “Almost American Girl: An Illustrated Memoir” and “Cook Korean!: A Comic Book With Recipes.”
![Illustration of chameleons at a Korean restaurant.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/7ee627a/2147483647/strip/true/crop/829x1250+0+0/resize/1200x1809!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fa7%2F19%2F1107005b4d36a98cf45e7330a3c9%2Foe-ha-culture-chameleon1.jpg)
![Illustration of chameleons discussing Korean language.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/e524513/2147483647/strip/true/crop/829x1250+0+0/resize/1200x1809!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F59%2F77%2F23e18c414c5e95de7fe2eb4c244e%2Foe-ha-culture-chameleon2.jpg)
![Illustration of a chameleon discussing Korean language boundaries.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/3801a65/2147483647/strip/true/crop/829x1250+0+0/resize/1200x1809!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fd3%2F92%2F196e9c214f9ca6d509dd21d6c027%2Foe-ha-culture-chameleon3.jpg)
![Illustration of a chameleon meeting an ex-boyfriend's father.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/7cff333/2147483647/strip/true/crop/829x1250+0+0/resize/1200x1809!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F99%2Fe5%2F605717264ece84226b53389d101a%2Foe-ha-culture-chameleon4.jpg)
![Illustration of a chameleon being told a story about the Korean war.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/9c3855b/2147483647/strip/true/crop/829x1250+0+0/resize/1200x1809!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F7a%2F25%2F32203d574592890983738bea09ab%2Foe-ha-culture-chameleon5.jpg)
![Illustration of a chamelon laughing off microaggression.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/e093b2a/2147483647/strip/true/crop/829x1250+0+0/resize/1200x1809!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F61%2F8c%2F6654a17c43329c345cd1f583b306%2Foe-ha-culture-chameleon6.jpg)
![Illustration of a Korean American chameleon with pink and blue chameleons flanking her.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/0238381/2147483647/strip/true/crop/829x1250+0+0/resize/1200x1809!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F6c%2Faa%2F878459ae4391a9641e6dca5e6cfa%2Foe-ha-culture-chameleon7.jpg)
![Illustration of a chameleon speaking with other like-minded chameleons.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/f01a224/2147483647/strip/true/crop/829x1250+0+0/resize/1200x1809!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Ff0%2F30%2Fffa4bada43b2b49eef1960a03bf1%2Foe-ha-culture-chameleon8.jpg)
![Illustration of chameleons saying "you are perfect the way you are."](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/601d2fa/2147483647/strip/true/crop/829x1250+0+0/resize/1200x1809!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fba%2F18%2Fddf50e084b529d0731156b51dd01%2Foe-ha-culture-chameleon9.jpg)
(Robin Ha)
Twitter: @RobinHaART
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