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![I have always cried a lot. My mom says from the minute I was born til I turned 9. Crying all the time makes me self-conscious](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/0b91588/2147483647/strip/true/crop/1750x2358+0+0/resize/2000x2695!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Ff4%2Fd8%2Fc4e1aef44191a7027c03aefe53ff%2Fla-oe-pepita-sandwich-crying-1.jpg)
![For years, I wanted to control my crying: I'd do anything to prevent tears running down my face. I used to feel embarrassed.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/10d3907/2147483647/strip/true/crop/2250x3031+0+0/resize/2000x2694!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fd0%2F50%2F81336d2842f6b762e230e723dff3%2Fla-oe-pepita-sandwich-crying-2.jpg)
![Darwin once declared emotional tears "purposeless". Crying in public remains largely taboo. Why? What does it mean if we cry?](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/aca2c8c/2147483647/strip/true/crop/2250x3031+0+0/resize/2000x2694!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fd8%2F08%2F19ff16384f0d8f8a84301ae36550%2Fla-oe-pepita-sandwich-crying-3.jpg)
![Research has found on top of being self-soothing, shedding tears releases oxytocin and endorphins, which make you feel good.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/28b2df2/2147483647/strip/true/crop/2250x3031+0+0/resize/2000x2694!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F51%2Fb7%2Fc99ec821465a94bdb6cbd612da81%2Fla-oe-pepita-sandwich-crying-4.jpg)
![A few years ago I moved from Buenos Aires to New York City. I decided to start my "crying diaries."](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/5ba1a83/2147483647/strip/true/crop/2250x3031+0+0/resize/2000x2694!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F28%2Faa%2F72edd71d4da4b6a9b2078acff34b%2Fla-oe-pepita-sandwich-crying-5.jpg)
![Crying is a beautiful form of bodily expression. We cry because we need other people, we feel emotions deeply, we're alive.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/8879a7b/2147483647/strip/true/crop/2250x3031+0+0/resize/2000x2694!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F52%2F68%2F8bffc3ca4e08b7df095fce239ffd%2Fla-oe-pepita-sandwich-crying-6.jpg)
Pepita Sandwich is an artist, illustrator and author of the forthcoming book “The Art of Crying,” from which this op-comic is adapted.
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